Ryan gosling why break up

I will always be yours. What is your favorite Allie and Noah moment? According to Gosling, die-hard fans of The Notebook were furious with him after his split with the Mean Girls star.

How could you let a girl like that go? They seem so sad. Rachel and I should be the ones getting hugs! Simone Torn Linkedin. And despite the breakup, are they still friends? Gosling, McAdams, and I are all Scorpios — a trio of November babies alleged to be passionate and loyal with disarmingly quiet venom. Stingers poised for when we deem ourselves wronged, as Ryan seemed to believe.

I wondered if our sign's tendency to fixate on worst case scenarios had created a self-fulfilling prophecy for McGosling, resulting in a split that surprised fans and casual celebrity observers alike. I could seriously relate to this scenario. I had never believed I was "good enough" for college, and perhaps this mindset was partly to blame for it not working out. But the college thing was just What You Did. If there was an opportunity to expand your mind and cultivate the set of life-long friends purportedly built-in to the experience, wouldn't you take it?

In reality, I went through the rigmarole of freshman year as a lonely, small-town transplant in the midst of a grief-haze following the death of my father 18 months earlier.

This was peppered with feelings of intellectual and social inadequacy. An eventual bright spot was coincidently bonding with a classmate over some post-war play. She then introduced me to the cinematic swoon of The Notebook and its beguiling stars. But, as my sophomore year galumphed on, I realized I couldn't continue my education on the basis of finding one similarly pop-culture inclined friend alone. Meanwhile, Rachel remained silent about the reported breakup with Ryan. He, on the other hand, blamed showbiz.

It was a narrative I perpetuated for years after, as a way of distracting folk from perceiving me as a failure. Gosling opened up to the UK newspaper The Times about his breakups with McAdams Sandra Bullock, during which he blamed the limelight for getting in the way of the relationships with his two "greatest girlfriends.

I haven't met anybody who could top them," he told the paper via Huffington Post in September When both people are in showbusiness, it's too much showbusiness. It takes all of the light, so nothing else can grow. Now that he's in a serious relationship with actress Mendes, only time will tell if their love can withstand the glitz and glamour of showbiz.

After The Notebook hit theaters in , Gosling became one of the most sought-after hunks in Hollywood; only two-plus years later, he received an Academy Award nomination for the indie drama Half-Nelson. With that level of superstardom, it can be tough to date anyone or anything besides your career.

In fact, even Gosling himself admitted to The Times via Yahoo! According to OK! Although those rumors were never confirmed, Gosling has expressed on at least one occasion his desire to settle down and raise a family. I'll make movies until I make babies. Ironically, People reported that McAdams' split from actor Michael Sheen in because he wasn't ready to settle down and have a family with her. The end of Gosling and McAdams' relationship wasn't one of those messy Hollywood breakups that are splattered all over magazine covers.

In fact, after they parted ways, Gosling had nothing but nice things to say about his former lover. Gosling told GQ , "People do Rachel and me a disservice by assuming we were anything like the people in that movie. Rachel and my love story is a hell of a lot more romantic than that. The two have reportedly remained friends after their breakup. In fact, rumors have also swirled that the two have stayed connected through phone calls.